Aspergers Mommy

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Well I am a mom of two wonderful kids that I have been blessed with!!! I am not a psychiatrist, or a doctor so anything I say is not the answer to all, it might not even be the right thing for me!! lol I do my best with who and what I have to overcome any challenge with lots and lots of prayer,my mom who is God given just to me for this very reason, my sisters, and friends! I love life, mostly positive........BUT I am insane at times, get to the point of wanting to explode! lol.. I sing kids songs way too much! Did I mention I am OCD when it comes to cleaning. Which believe it or not I think is what keeps me sane. When I clean, I love it. Breakdowns, crying, talking, just all seem to be ok as I clean..Thank God for OCD!!!

Friday, April 20, 2012

Aspergers...ODD...What intelligence do you add to this family?? Ummm....April 20, 2012

It's FRIDAY!!!!!!!!!!

So this is the funniest conversation I have had in a long time!!!!!

I was talking to my sub-human on Friday about the weather and we were discussing our plans in case of a tornado... We watch out for each other like that... AWWWWW SO, I ask her are you ready and she says..................Yes I got the tarp down on the basement floor and I have my duct tape, knife, trash bags and candles.    I started cracking up and asked her WHAT kind of kit is that the Serial killer kit?????   lololol

The serial killer kit: Perfect for duct taping everyone up an d knife for cutting them in little pieces, trash bags to put it is and candles to create the pentagon sign on the floor and the tarp for an easy clean up... LOLOLOLOL  I asked her if she got the shovel jus tin case...............OMGosh I was dying.....  She was tooo... I said........... how bout some water, food, maybe something to go poty in if needed?????????  She said... Well, I had not thought of that  lolol Gotta love the way her brain thinks.. lol  I love you Jalaine! 

Well this week of course was up and down as usual. I would give it a C maybe if i had to choose..... As anyone reading should know, Samarra gets overly excited with anything.......Of course at home I got to witness the..................

(When you read this next part try and read it with an English accent, lol it makes it sound more cool). lolol

RARE African native dance only seen by very few where somehow the whole body can be mid-air and the strange sounds and faces to go with just blend it all together to make the most freaky look I ever saw !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  

lololol  And of course the grabbing and jumping and flailing about all over and the ear piercing screams and the clapping.. OMG the clapping..........I PROMISE her hands are not just skin, somehow when she claps it lets off this ear piecing screech of some kind that is so painful!!!!!!!!!  Have i mentioned that she has a habit or something of this and does this EVERYDAY for NO REASON!!!!!!!!!!!!   Like i hear it and instant reaction....................  

OK back to story  lolol...Well, there was a field trip to be on Thursday, so she got in trouble at school on Tuesday and Wednesday = (  I think i mentioned at one point Samarra gets the special desk next to the teacher, so the teacher can help her stay on track... HMMMMMMM Seems to me I remember a certain little niece of mine RACHEL.. lol Who had the same seat as Samarra did when she was in second grade!!!!!!!!!  I love you sweetie!!!

OK, anyway, Samarra had improved so much that the teacher tried moving her father away and allowing her to do it herself................Yea.. her desk is back next to the teacher  lolol Funny thing is, Just like Rachel did, Samarra thinks of this as a privilege!!  lolol  I do have to say though that this teacher at Harvest Life does VERY well with Samarra and does NOT allow her to go off on tangents and keeps her focused and challenged. Which is great, she also knows her so well that she picks up on things before they even happen... AWESOME teacher... Do private school teachers get Teacher of the Year??? 

Of course Samarra had to get in trouble at home as well as reinforcement of good behavior......She got grounded from the TV and iPod........OH NO!!!!!!!!! I have to say though, I believe it has helped my house be more quiet except ONE THING............This breaks Samarra's morning routine.... Wake up at 5:55, turn on morning show, eat food, get dressed...etc..

Well no TV, so I cant get her to eat......I keep saying......Samarra eat!!!!!!!!!!  She says.. I cant, I always watch the morning show and eat my breakfast and I cant watch it, so I cant eat.. Just save it till next Friday when I am not grounded anymore........LOLOLOL  So I think she is loosing weight this week I am not going to fight it.

I have to say one thing though.. her not watching TV and not playing with iPod has caused her focus to be off.....Weird enough, I think the TV helps her learn to focus more, even if it is for like 5 min... She never can sit still or stay focused on a show that long, but she usually quick gets up and checks on everyone in the house and manages to destroy a few things on the way and then goes and sits back down...... I have to say the time she is focused on the TV are like heaven...

I KNOW I KNOW  BAD MOMMY!!!!!! But I seriously cant seem to get anything done with her not focused on something..........Wed. nit she goes to a class for 2 hours...........I am like speedy gonmomma.. I have the whole house lookin good by the time she comes back through the door and in 5 min it is ripped apart............I have to do something about that..

I think I am going to make a chart for routine purposes of what she is to do when she walks in the door.. let ya know how it goes= ) 

And the other BIG thing is........She has had some more anger issues this week, I think it is from being frustrated cause the days are off to her now.... I must mention loosing the TV was only her loosing 2 hours probably total a day including the morning, so she does not just sit in front of it!!! But anyway, she has had anger issues where she is not mad at me or anyone, she beats herself up...... causing bodily harm to herself for getting herself in this mess... So that was a bit different for me to deal with.. All i could do is tell her about when i made mistakes as a kid and what happened to me and that it is normal and that it is no big deal just take it and try to remember next time to make the right decision.........  I have to admit i get scared sometimes on how she is going to deal with things when I am not around...........GGGGGRRRRRRRR

OK this post is way too long!!!!!

Last thing.... I got kind of video happy this time so more videos then photos.....= )

I did manage to video tape a "normal" conversation that Samarra has with me, but I only could video for a minute, so it got cut off, but you will see in the video how she speaks a lot and how the focus is all over.. I repeat her questions so you can hear.... Oh and one of Siahna has an air plane in the back ground, sorry= )

 Click the following links........

1.Samarra asking me questions video...

2. Siahna took pants off again Part 1 

    Siahna took her pants off Part 2 

3. Siahna singing again 

ARRRRGGGG................ But it is suppose to be from the Land run times  lol

WHAT??? Ain't you seen a DIVA on a slide before??? lol

NO, I didn't take my pants off again.......... I cant keep them on her!!!! lolol   

Ever notice my eyes look different sizes??? lolol  WEIRD

 Have a GREAT WEEK!!!


1 comment:

  1. So funny! Sounds like you have your hands full!